Wednesday, April 11, 2012

On the Irresistible Charm of "Less is More"


Period porn (n). A drama set in the 18th or 19th centuries wherein a gentleman reaches unbelievable heights of sexiness by loosening/removing his cravat, diving still-clothed into a pond, or thanking his employee with a hand-clasp after she saves his life. See also: BBC literary adaptations.
If you recognized the above scenes* without even having to click on the links, you know what I'm talkin' about. There's nothing like the restraints of class, society, and numerous layers of clothing to ramp up the sexual tension as the two protagonists stay apart, every glance or slight touch filled with significance and longing. Not a naked torso or bedroom romp in sight - just the way I like it.

Now, I'm very much a 21st-century woman and a proud feminist, but in terms of romance I just find these period dramas to be far superior to the typical contemporary chick flick in which girl meets/hooks up with guy, is separated from guy due to some crisis of the plot and then finally reunites with him, interspersed with bouts of chocolate, shopping and "empowering" advice from a bevy of girlfriends who each represents a personality type. Yawn. Give me the allure of things left unsaid, the agony of love expressed but indirectly, the seething passions carefully curbed so that when finally glimpsed the contrast is intense...it's the ultimate tease, and so very enjoyable.

*North and South, Pride and Prejudice and Jane Eyre, respectively


Saturday, April 7, 2012

On Simple Happinesses

It's a marvelous spring day, painted in quirky shades of Amélie, and I'm loving life.

Among other things, I love:
- the French language
- sitting on a sunny bench in the park
- little children speaking French
- watching a boy of about 8 work on mastering a two-wheeler...and then seeing a tiny girl who looked 4 or 5 tearing around on her two-wheeler
- the prevalence of interracial couples here
- journaling
- my neighborhood
- flowering trees
- alone time
- the nostalgia from reruns of "Boy Meets World"
- Easter being in spring
- singing "How Can I Keep From Singing," Irish-style

That is all. For now. Joy to you, this Passover/Easter/spring weekend.